Tag Archives: gender inequality

It’s not about the extra mitzvot: Mansplaining the Morning Blessings

In Orthodox prayerbooks, a traditional daily morning blessing specifically thanks God for “not making me woman.” It is a part of a trio of prayers expressing gratitude for what we are not. The other two members of the trio are thanking … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism and Jewish Ritual & Practice, Feminist Parenting, Liberal Judaism, Liturgy, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 10 Comments

It wasn’t the “grassroots” of Orthodoxy. It was liberal Jews.

There is a fascinating (to me anyway) and respectful debate about Partnership Minyanim going on in a multi-part series over at Modern Torah Leadership. It starts off with an essay by Rabbi Aryeh Klapper,  Are Partnership Minyanim Orthodox?  and then includes responses … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism and Jewish Ritual & Practice, Liberal Judaism | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

An Orthodox-Friendly, Egalitarian Bencher: Something Old, Something Very New

I am delighted that the TORCH of JOFA  (Jewish Orthodox Feminist alliance) published my post on the new Orthodox-friendly Egalitarian bencher. My points are that while egalitarian benchers are not new (see my list in the article) and this one is not … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism and Jewish Ritual & Practice, Liberal Judaism | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

If they were sons

It is early on  a weekday morning and my 8-year-old comes into our room and jumps in bed with me and with  our two year old who has been sleeping next to me. We move over to make room for her … Continue reading

Posted in Feminist Parenting | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Girls are Easy: A Rant

I have three daughters. When people hear this, be they co-workers, parents I meet in the playground or people in the supermarket, they very often say, “You are lucky; girls are easy” or “Girls are easier to__” . People say this whether they … Continue reading

Posted in Feminist Parenting | Tagged , , | 5 Comments

My daughter on Kippah and tfillin

I generally don’t post my kids’ achievements on my blog or facebook, but I couldn’t resist this one as it is so close to the themes of this blog. Here is Tefillin and Standing Out  by  my eldest.  It is short … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism and Jewish Ritual & Practice, Feminist Parenting, Liberal Judaism | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

All-of-a-kind Family tore down the mechitzah on Simchat Torah

What were shuls like in terms of seating  early 1900s in the United states? The family pew/mixed seating came to Reform shuls in the 1850s and was adopted between the 1920s and mid-1950s by most what were to become “Conservative” … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism and Jewish Ritual & Practice, Feminist Parenting, Jewish Feminism & Media | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments